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EP 17 | What's Your Relationship with Money?
In Episode 17 of Deep Divin', we explore the deep-rooted scarcity mindset surrounding money in Latino culture. Growing up, many of us were taught that money is hard to come by, that we have to work ourselves to the bone to earn it, and that abundance is something far out of reach. But is that really the case?
Brenda shares a pivotal realization she had while growing her sound healing business—she used to believe she had to hustle non-stop and sacrifice her time to succeed. Now, she's embracing her feminine power, and everything is flowing to her effortlessly. It's no longer about hustle; it's about magnetizing abundance.
Nancz reminds listeners that if you were raised with a scarcity mindset, that's okay! But now is the time to shift into abundance. By recognizing the subconscious patterns that run our lives and choosing to move differently, we can change our relationship with money. It's all about feeling as though you already have what you desire. When you “vibe” with abundance, the universe will respond in kind.
Join us as we talk about how to rewrite the narrative around money, shift your mindset, and start feeling abundant today! Don’t forget to check out our Instagram and YouTube for more insights and discussions.
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EP 17 | What's Your Relationship with Money?
Hey guys, welcome to the Deep Dive In podcast with Nancy and Brenda. And we're back, baby. We are, we are back. Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back. Oh my God. I think we like wanted to have this conversation before. Mhm. But like today is the right time to like for some reason like yeah he's a day I agree I think it's just the right timing you know. Yeah. And I think it's a big topic. It's a very big topic that we want to go into today guys. Uh we want to go into talking about money, um, and our relationship with money. And obviously money is a big thing because we've made it a big thing in our society when it's really not. But whatever. Um, we'll get into that made up thing. Yeah. So I think it's very interesting and obviously, um, I know for me, like my relationship with money, um, or the relationship I have with money and my perspective that I have with money has changed for, for the most part, like the last couple of months, um, with all the work that we've been doing. But I definitely want to, like, share. Like what? you're like. What our stories were. Yeah. If you want to share, like, what was your relationship with money or how was money presented to you? Or growing up? Like what? What were you taught about money? Do you remember? From what I remember, uh, growing up, was that say rapido and, uh, trabajar duro por el dinero. So you had to work hard for it, and for sure. So those were like the two things that I mainly grew up with. Or even like the saying like estoy dinero or like, and I mean, later on I'm like, well, yeah. Like to me you have all the money. It's like how the girls think that we're made of money right now. Yeah. Right. And and so it's so funny, like to see that play out now in my life, uh, with them. But yeah, that that was really and, and I saw a lot of the money go very fast as they would say, because at one point, like I remember all my family got affected by that crisis, the meltdown, or what did they call it in 2008, the mortgage crisis? Yeah, crisis. The meltdown. You know what the. That's the news. There's a new movie, Dumbo. Yeah. Instead of the Big Short, it's the melt down. I better figuratively royalty on that. So your family was affected by by that? The meltdown. The meltdown? Yeah. So they were all affected by that. And then a lot of them were gamblers as well. Yeah. And I mean, it's appropriate for where they live. Guys, there's a freaking thing. There's gambling machines or slot machines in the. I'm surprised they don't have them in the restroom instead. But there's gambling or the slot machines in, like 7011. Or you go and buy a Slurpee. Yeah, yeah, you go to Smith's to have. Or to the grocery store, um, to buy your groceries on a Tuesday night. And you're like, let me go see if I fucking win the jackpot. The slot machines with a bunch of, like, old people. Yeah, yeah. Um, so. Yeah. So a lot of my upbringing with money was that that it went fast, but you had to work hard for it to get it back. Yeah. Um, and so my family, I felt, was always, like, in hustle mode as well. Uh, my mom was always in sales, so she's the mom. That was always, like, doing. a Mary Mary Kay Princess house. Um, all of the things you could think of. So did you always have, like, a bunch of shit in your house? Yeah. A merchant always, or she would always be taking us with her, like to people's houses. Yeah, and they're great to go. So she would sell jewelry. She liked the little parties. Yeah. The parties. She'd be the lady like that would sell you order. You'd sell you gold. Oh, shit. You'd buy blankets off of her, uh, clothes that she'd go buy from Cali, and then she'd sell it. And, you know, I admire my mom's hustle, like, now as an adult, like, um, I appreciate that. Yeah. How do you say it? Like, when you were younger. At that time, I enjoyed it because we would just go everywhere, okay? Like go to people's houses and we play with their kids. So I never really saw it as her, like trying to make money, you know? It was just like she just made it a part of our lives in a sense. Yeah, I feel yeah. And so we just were. That was what we were in. And it took me a while to reprogram my beliefs about money. So to you, money was like presented as it's not that easy to obtain. Mhm. It's like you have to work hard for it. You have to do all of these things like hustle, sell. Yeah. You have to hustle for it for, for it. Yeah. How was it for you. I feel like for me, I don't think there is a hustling for sure. No, but my mom did work very hard. Like she she would always work overtime and stuff and um, I like she would always work Saturdays, for example. Um, to like, do the overtime and stuff. Um, for me, when I was, when I was young, I think it was just more of, um, kind of the same. There is always like a scarcity. Like a scarcity, I think, with money, like. But but you see, thinking about it, I would never I never remember my mom saying like. Or maybe she did, and I just don't remember like her saying like, oh, there's not enough money or no whatever. I think it was just implied, like, like I just didn't like we I don't know if we just didn't ask for things because we knew that the whole money situation or whatever, like, I didn't think that we were like, I, I knew that we didn't have money. Yeah. Like like I knew I don't know if you call it like, I knew we were poor. And I think as kids you pick up on that. Well, yeah. Because like me, we would get, you know, all the help, like we would go to, um, I remember being little and we would go to, um, like the food banks and like, get boxes of food there. Um, and we like, I remember doing, like, coupons, you know, like going to the grocery store and all of the cousins lining up in different lines because there was a limit of like two per person. So our parents made us like line up in different lines. So there was a lot of those things. There's a lot of like like, I don't know, using the system to or not, I guess not using it, but just like just learning how, learning how to kind of I can't even know, I guess. But like, no, like learning how to stretch your money. Yeah, right. Like learning how to stretch your money. And I think we like I learned that at a very young age. Um, but I did always hear, you know, money doesn't grow on trees. And. Yeah. So there is a lot of instances where it was just like, I, I knew that there wasn't much, but we had everything we needed in the same time. Mhm. But I never like I never learned much about like money like finances. Me neither. Like I never I was I, I never learned, I wasn't taught like oh you do this and you do that or this is a debit card or you know like those things. And in, I don't know, like I feel that's very important. This is an irony. It's all. Yeah. I think it would have made a big difference in my life. If I started working at 15. I'd have a big ass IRA right now. But yeah. So so my my relationship with money was like. It was like it wasn't easy. Also, it wasn't easy. It wasn't easy to come by. Um, and as I grow older though, like teenager or than I started learning like, oh, I need a hustle and I need to, um, um, I need to, like, work hard in order for me to. Then I started learning that, like, concept. Yeah. You know, because I, I realized, like, how much my mom worked and, like, oh, she's working overtime. Like, I need to do that. You know, the more hours I work, the more I get paid. Yeah, but then, like, I don't have freedom. But but that but that what you're saying right now, it's so it's a difference in culture in how everybody's brought up and what they believe they need to do to make money. Right. And in our culture, it's you need to go find a very stable job and work as much as you can there to get their benefits and get paid hourly or salary or whatever. Yeah, yeah. But if you think of like other cultures, they some of them tell their kids, like the only way you make money is by starting a business, right? You know. So that's there. There's that disconnect there in our culture, like and obviously our families had to when they were growing up and stuff. Yeah. I think it's like a generational thing. Yeah. Right. Like and I think it's more so like the I feel like, um, really the point that I want to like for me come across as, like how different. I mean, you don't have to stay in that same perception. Right? Like, yeah, we we had the hustle mentality and we were told the money's very hard to get or that you have to work hard to get it. So all of these things that were told and were said, it's like, well, you could either stay in that perception or in that perspective of it or you could like now I know for me, like I feel like money is the exchange of energy. Mhm. And that's what I've learned. Right. Like money is an exchange of energy. And like I know that it's just a way of flow, like a flow of life essentially. And you have to get into that vibration for it to flow. It's okay to like you're going to receive and you're going to give and that's you're going to receive and you're going to give, and you're going to receive and you're going to give. And there goes that cycle. So it's I think it's just not like putting too much of the, I want to say like too much attention to it. No, you're right that we do right now. Like, I feel like we just put too much emphasis of lack of or, you know, people or like, rich people, like lack of or, you know, people that have a lot of it. Yeah. And we put too much attention into that. And it's like, I don't feel for me like it's not about that. No, it's just about like what I'm getting from what you're saying is that it's just about learning how to, uh, let it flow into your life effortlessly and easily. And you're completely right. The more that I give in, for example, the more that I give attention to somebody who is super wealthy. And I am in like, oh my gosh, they have so much money. I am affirming subconsciously that I lack that right and I will receive more lack. Yeah, because of that. Because you're attracting the less. Yeah. Because I'm like, I don't have this, I don't have this. So the universe is just going to give me more of not having that. So you're absolutely right. Yeah. It is. Yeah. That's ultimately like that's the way you work. That's life. Yeah. Yeah. And it and it's and it's very interesting because it's still a big struggle for me sometimes. Mhm. Um I think mostly because in the society that we live in it's. Obviously this big thing. Yeah. Like you can't just ignore this big thing, but also it's very that's I feel what makes it difficult to kind of change that um, unlearn. Yeah. The things that you have about money or what you, what you were taught about it, it's diff. It makes it a little bit difficult, um, to unlearn those things because, yeah, you do live in the day to day, you know, and if you're short on pain, something or whatever, um, right away you could fall into, like, the holy shit, like, what the fuck am I going to do? Like, I don't have money to pay this and I have to pay this. And another expense came up, and it's very easy to fall into that. Yeah, that rabbit hole of, like, I don't have enough. Yes. Because your current circumstances show you that you don't have enough. And, uh, I know that I personally lived through moments like that. And and so let me tell you that. So I lived through moments like that where my bank account was negative. Right. And I remember, like, telling myself like affirmations of like, I'm wealthy, I'm wealthy, I'm wealthy. Yeah. Um, and for a bit I believed them. And then they just, like, I stopped doing the affirmations, and then they just went away, like, I didn't do them long enough. Right. And but then I realized years later that, uh, it wasn't until, like, a few months ago, like you said, that I was really just psyching myself out. Yeah, because I still hadn't fully addressed the root of that. You're just trying to put a Band-Aid on your bank account so I could go positive. Yeah. So I was just like you myself. Out. And this is why sometimes affirmations don't work, guys. And not until you get to the root of why like, this is happening for you. And so, uh, for me. Yeah. No. Go ahead. No, I was gonna ask what was the root like? What did you find out? Like, did you. Yeah. Well, what I found was that I believed that, uh, money does not come easily to me because I believed that I had to hustle for it. Right. And for a certain period of time in my life, I was hustling for my money. Yeah. And, uh, like that hard hustle. Yeah. Hard hustle. And that I'm still trying to reprogram. I wasn't on the street today. Maybe that didn't sound right. I'm not mine. No. But, um. Yeah. So the the root belief was that I believe that money did not flow easily to me, um, and that I had to sacrifice my time in order to get money. And I saw that sacrifice very. It was very difficult for me the word sacrifice, because I was at a point where I was working at a company where I literally, like, gave a like my whole day's like it was from like 8 a.m. to like 9 p.m. at night. And I, I remember being told like, it's okay if you're working all the time, like when your babies are little because they're not even going to remember that you weren't there. And, uh, but I remember what I missed out on. Yeah, I remember what I missed. Right. They're not going to remember that I wasn't there, but I remember what I missed. I remember missing the first footsteps of my oldest. Right? And so I was like those things that caused me to build this, like resentment that if I sacrifice my time for money, like I'm going to miss out on things. Yeah. And so that's taken me a while to get to that, you know that. Yeah. It wasn't until recently that I got to that. And now I'm like, oh yes, like money freaking rains on me. I money is all around me. Like this microphone is money. This laptop in front of me is money. Yeah. What I shower in is money. The water is money. So now, like, I understand that it's the way that I feel and the way that my energy and vibration is that allows the money to flow to me. And like, I see myself as this freaking goddess that just lets money magnetized to her. Yeah. And, um, and so that's how I know that my perception of money has shifted because of how I see it now. Yeah. And I'm just like, no. Yeah. Like I deserve to get paid this amount because I'm giving you my exchange of my energy and what I have to give to you and in service to you. And this is what you're able to provide me with. And that's a fair exchange. Yeah. Do you, do you do anything, um, for yourself like regularly to that has helped you get to this point where you're just, like feeling like a goddess and with the crown, um, and like, like when I was with her and see right now with your hand with. Is there anything, anything that you, any practices or anything that you have done to basically get you there? Like is it just, you know, just continuing like your meditations, like, is there anything that specifically about money? Because I know that we've had a conversation, you and I, before, like we have conversations about our relationship or like how our relationship is with money and stuff. But what you're mentioning right now is like, I know it's recent, like this recent shift that has happened in our lives with the relationship of of money. But is there anything that you can think of or remember like that has helped you get to this? Yes. Uh, the thing specifically that's coming to mind right now that helped me like, for example, with the one about how I have to that how I have to, uh, sacrifice my time in order to get money. Yeah, that one specifically, I found, because it was a deep tapping into my subconscious to the root of it. So it was about in regards to like, what is one thing you want to create, right. And my creation is my sound healing business. That is the one thing that I am creating. And so one of the questions was like, what is something that you fear in regards to creating this business? I think it was. Yeah. And uh, the fear was that I won't receive enough money flowing in and a continuous basis to be able to sustain the lifestyle that I live and that I want. And so in that response, there's always a root to it, like, well, why do you fear that? Why do I fear like the fact that I might not make enough money doing what I'm creating? And the fear that led me to find out that what I was really afraid of was to give up a lot of time in doing this business and creating this business of sound healing that would then cause me to lose out on precious things that I considered precious moments ago. And so it's still kind of like a, a PTSD really from like your previous. Yeah, experience with the hustling mentality and like, um, having to give up your time. Yeah. And losing the precious moments that you felt you should have been. Yes. With. Yeah. It was. So. Yeah. So the subconscious, the subconscious, the getting to the root of it is what has helped me. And secondly, the, the most important thing is reading and listening to podcasts about like vibration. Yeah. And my energy and the importance of the energy that you put out on a day to day basis that I feel has been the main thing. Yeah. For me, um. Because along with that comes that whole feeling of like, I am a fucking goddess. That just. Did you discuss? Yeah. Oh my God. Guys, guys. Wait wait wait wait wait. I can't believe it. It's so good on the podcast. Yeah. This is your first time? No, I think it is, but. Yeah. Answer your question. She said, oh, my fucking God. Smell that? That's the energy right there. Yeah, that's the energy right there. Yeah. Yeah. Like yes. Everything you say. Is there like a particular, um, like a podcast that or like something that you listen to that has really made or made an impact. They have been, uh, that it might be too much for some people, but Emily Fletcher, uh, she has a podcast, uh, that I think it's called the Ziva meditation. And then Layla Martin, she has one called the Tantric Lifestyle. Now, Emily Fletcher's is wise. And everyone doing this. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. And, uh, Layla martin's is this tantric life or something like that, but. Okay, their podcast and the people they bring on, they're mostly women for the most part. But they talk about a lot of deeper things that women tend to carry and, and, like, are trying to work through that do not allow them to feel like this fucking goddess. And so they talk about that a lot. And I feel like it's been through their podcasts, um, that it has really allowed me to get into that divine energy. Yeah. Yeah. Of, of like claiming it of claiming the power that we as women hold down. Now, I'm curious to know, I mean, I've listened to some of, of the podcast as well, and I know that they have a very like strong feminine presence and like help you get get in tune and and like get in touch with your feminine side. Yeah. And that the subconscious piece of it. Yeah. Um, was Tori Gordon, she, she has uh, her Instagram is revived Las Vegas and she has a revived women's group. And that group she taps all into, like, the subconscious and stuff, and that that's the group where, like, I tapped into that. Oh, wow. This part. Yeah. She's the best. That's crazy. That's so awesome. But you see, it takes it takes time. Yeah. Like I feel like I feel currently we're like on the brink of, like a bigger change, you know. Yeah. It's always like another step and another step. And I never really understood that because I would hear that concept being said like in different podcasts. And I would listen to what concept of like the steps that it takes, like you've continued to do the work or you continue to listen to these things or, or study it and be more spiritual, connected to yourself. Um, and like there's still steps to, uh, like realization. Yeah. And not to connect for it all to connect. But then at the same time like it then you continue on and then it connects even more and it connects even more. And there is no there is no end to the connection. Like there's just more understanding and more consciousness and more awareness. Like there's just more and more and more that you just see differently. And you just you're just seeing like from a different perspective that you've never seen before. And you're just like, oh my God. Like what? Why wasn't I told this? I honestly feel like that most of my like, most of my days in this earth, you know, like I'm just like, why haven't why what? What do you mean? Um, because I feel like. I feel for me, like, with money. It's like growing up in the environment that I did in in this society that I did or the. Yeah, the environment that I did, um, I feel like the concept of money, like I mentioned, was very it was very scarce and very like, um, it was very like, oh you there wasn't enough. Mhm. There isn't enough. Mhm. And with knowing what like I know now like there is so much like it's infinite. It's infinite, there's no such thing like and, and it's crazy to me because it's like I think. Yeah, I don't remember where I heard this from, but it was like the concept of like, well, like, how do you like there is more than enough. Like if a computer, the banks or the Federal Reserve can just create money out of thin air. Yeah. What makes you think that you can't. Yeah. They're using a computer like you're more powerful than a computer than whatever. Like you could create money out of thin air as well. And and what I mean by that, I mean, obviously it's not like it's you're not a magician. Obviously. It's not like you're creating money out of thin air to appear. But I'm just saying, like, vibrationally, if you're aligned with the thought of everything's always working out for you, and if you're aligned with I'm a Goddess And like, money's around me, and I magnetized everything. Exactly. If you're aligned with that, with that belief and that vibration and that frequency, then you could create anything. You create your world. Yeah. This is what they talk about when people say, like, you create your own reality, right? Yeah. You create your own life. Like, that's like, that's literally it. Yeah. Being in the vibration and the attraction. Knowing that it's already yours. Mhm. Knowing that like you, it's already yours. It already is. Act as if. Act as if the life you have is already there in front of your eyes. Yes. Like a lot of the times people ask for stuff is because of what is going to how it's going to make them feel. Right, I wish I won the lottery, I wish I had $1 million. Well, why do you wish that? Is it going to make you feel better? Because you're going to be able to pay off your your debt and all of this stuff. Okay, so if it's the feeling that you're after, then feel that right now. Right? And once you feel that right now, then that money will come to you. Exactly. Yeah. It's been in that feeling for it to just flow. Yeah. Yeah. It's. Yeah. And then I can imagine they sometimes they think right. Because I'm human. Mhm. But I can't imagine like. Your little baby. Like growing up. Like growing up with that. Like. Like our. Your parents telling you that. Yeah. Yeah. Like imagine being. Like you're like, I'm imagining, you know, five year old Nancy, six year old Nancy. Right? A little bit. I was so cute for imagining, like, imagine little me and my mom just being like, anything you want. Like, you could create, like. Well, like, we tell that to the girls and they're like, what? No. Yeah. Of course, like, we're trying to, you know, like. But I sometimes think, like, imagine my mom like Nancy to quieras puede hacer realidad el dinero vienen. Yeah. So like she says that to you now. Oh my God, I always like sometimes they think about like the things that I know now. And I always think like, imagine my mom or my dad saying that to me like, you could you create your life or. And so it is as clear is that the translation I see say I see that, oh, I see Sarah. No, I see Sarah. Oh no, I see yes. And so it is anyway. Um I yeah like it's it's it it's just funny to me because it's like, damn. Imagine if my mom would have told me that. But, I mean, it's not knocking, like, no way. My mom, like, obviously, um, my parents did. My parents did so much for us in their own way. So that's why it's like in their own way, they sacrificed and they, they learned whatever they, they needed to learn for themselves and, you know, worked worked hard because that's all. That's all they knew. Like, you come to the United States and you work hard, like you come to the USA and you can make money and you can make a life, but you have to work hard. Like that's that's what they were told. It's embedded in our blood like it really is. And sometimes and sometimes it is difficult to separate from that. Yeah. Because I'm like I was in that hustle mentality as well. Yeah. You were here and I'm like and I'm like and and it's kind of hard because it's like it's kind of, um, it's not hard. But I guess a better way to explain it is at times those that believe still comes up. Yes. Like, oh no, I have to work harder. Yeah. Like, oh I'm not, I'm not where I like want to be because I need to work harder. And there's some truth to that. But it's also like it's. It's also like, okay, it's not only working harder, is I? Well, how are you feeling about the work that you're doing? Right? Because a lot of the times it's really about how you're feeling. Yeah. And in that moment, like today, for example, and I was at work, I was like in the flow of it. Right. It has some little music on, um, focused music on that. I just realized life makes me focus for anybody that has ADHD. Yeah, yeah. For some reason, like I put little music on YouTube, like I just found, um, work music. Yeah, you tell me. And I have it on. I have it playing in the background and it works. It makes me focus. That's so crazy. So, yeah, go to play some music if you have trouble focusing. Yeah. Thank me later. Thank me later. Um, but, yeah, like, I was out, I was, I was working today and like, I was flowing like everything was good. And then I wasn't getting the results that I. That I wanted to write, and I was aware of that, though, because I started feeling some type of way like, fuck, like, right. You know, like somebody wasn't people weren't answering their phone or replying to me, and I just wasn't getting the responses that I wanted. So in that same way, I was kind of like frustrated. You can't really create from that state of frustration, like you're just causing friction to it all. Um, and I found and I, I found myself being aware of that. And then I started thinking like, oh, I need to work some more. Like, I need to I need to stay stay on longer, you know, to see if I could cause somebody else or whatever. Um, like, I didn't get the results I was getting. I needed I need to stay on longer. But in all of this, that I'm just saying right now, it's all like frustration. It's all a lack of. It's all like, you know, it's all like a negative vibration. Yeah. That you're essentially like being in, in the state because I was frustrated and and I was, you know, like I got a I became aware of that and I'm like, oh, well I'm not gonna be able to create anything from this state. Mhm. Right. And it's like okay, well let me, let me take a moment like take a breather. And that's when I took a break. Um, like I took a break for like 20 minutes and I just stepped away and I, that's when I went to the room. Um, and I'm like, okay. Like let me just step away like recenter myself and, and then come back, but. I feel like it's been in that awareness. So that's what I'm saying. Like sometimes like you have to I think the point is like being in that awareness of the vibration that you're that you're kind of that you're in and being aware like, oh, am I it is, am I doing what I want to? What am I doing it from a good vibration feeling right? Or am I like working right now, being frustrated and like, oh my God, nobody cares to talk to me like blah blah blah, right? Am I foreseen it? Yeah, yeah. If you're forcing it and I think that's that's the, the this that's where like, you know, you the subconscious programming of like hustling and like it comes back sometimes but you're in awareness now. Like if you do the work and you do the practices like you're in awareness now. Yeah, I'll tell you something I learned in the Revive Women's group was if it comes up in your awareness and you are and you continue to do like be in that state of mind at that point. It's now a choice. Like it's no longer a pattern that's coming up for you right now. You're making it a choice to stay in that. It's your choice to get out of it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think that's the important part. I think what the reason one of the biggest things are important things here, if you guys take anything away from it is, is really just like asking yourself the questions like what is my relationship to money right now. Mhm. How is your how do you connect to money or what is your belief. What how what do I believe I have to do to get money. Yeah. Mhm. Yeah. Write it down. Right. Yeah. Yeah. And it just asking yourself those questions because sometimes you are preventing yourself from abundance. Yes. Like you're your own block. Yeah. And just by asking those questions to yourself and writing it down and really sitting with it and, and like thinking about it. Like, oh, how did I grow up with money? Like I'm your mother? How did what was I taught? Yeah. How did my parents grow up with that money? Because usually, like, how they were brought up is how you were brought up. Exactly. Yeah. I think it's asking yourself those questions. What is my belief with money? How was my relationship or what did I learned? How was my how did I grow up, you know, with money or what were my parents believes. Mhm. Um, what did they teach me about money. Mhm. Um yeah. Like ask yourself these questions. I think it's the most important thing and kind of the starting point. Yeah. Of like learning your relationship because again there is unlimited amounts of money available to everyone. It's abundant. There is more than enough. There is no lack of there is more than enough to go around. Mhm. But you have to believe that. Yeah. You're believe and your vibration and your feeling has to all be aligned. And I think from there is how you live, you just live in the knowing that everything is already what you want it to be. Feel it. Yeah I agree. Yeah I think that's it. Yeah. Yeah that's great. Well thanks guys. Once again guys thank you for listening. If you gain something or feel inclined to share this episode, please do so. Go to our Instagram Deep Dive In podcast that's dive in the dive in and connect with us there. Comment share, post. We appreciate the support so much and we will catch you on the next one.